This seems to be such a hot topic.
Why do people feel the need to get on the Communion Line to not recieve Communion but to get a blessing? If you want to “feel” a part of something then by all means stay in your seat (if unworthy to recieve) and make an Act of Spiritual Communion…
My Jesus,
I believe that You
are present in the Most Holy Sacrament.
I love You above all things,
and I desire to receive You into my soul.
Since I cannot at this moment
receive You sacramentally,
come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You. Never permit me to be separated from You.Amen.
My favorite appologetic, Jimmy Akin, has something to say about this somewhat new fad of getting a blessing on the Communion Line…
A reader writes:
My wife is Episcopalian. I am Catholic. Recently, she was attending Mass, sitting up in the choir loft with our 2 1/2 year old son, while I was the cantor. At communion, she normally stays up in the choir loft at the back of the church (my father sings in the choir, so she gets privileges to sit off to the side/back), but one of the choir members normally carries our son down to Communion- mainly just to give him a ride.
So, this most recent time our son went with his usual ride, and I think another choir member, or possibly the choir director (who is pretty Orthodox)- not sure which it was, said she should go down to get a blessing. As you probably know, at Episcopal/Lutheran/probably other churches you can cross your arms on your chest to receive a blessing if you don’t want to receive communion.
So, she went down, and did that, and the pastor basically looked at her and said “We don’t do that”. She handled it gracefully, but my questions are as follows:
1) I thought blessings could be given in such a case. Is this wrong? I thought I’d read at one point had indicated this was possible.
The giving of blessings during Communion time is a sticky subject. There are several principles to keep in mind:
Since giving a blessing is not the same thing as giving Communion, this represents an interruption of the distribution of Communion.
It is not provided for in the liturgical books, and canon and liturgical law prohibit introducing new elements into the liturgy.
That being said, a priest is empowered to interrupt the liturgy for an adequate cause. For example, if a plane flies over during a prayer or his homily, he can pause for a moment until the plane is past.
It strikes me as reasonable–and it’s certainly within the realm of legitimate liturgical opinion to hold that it is reasonable–for a priest to pause the distribution of Communion in order to administer a blessing if the alternative is sending someone away disappointed and possibly angry and disaffected.
That being said, I would not be encouraging people to go up for such a blessing since it is not provided for in the liturgical books–yet. (See below on this.)
What I have said applies to priests and deacons. It does not necessarily apply to laity who are giving Communion and who are empowered to give blessings in many fewer circumstances than members of the clergy.
Having said that, I suspect that the giving of blessings during Communion time is may receive authorization at some point.At the recent Synod of Bishops meeting on the Eucharist, the bishops talked about this practice as a way of giving people (including non-Catholics) a way to participate so that they don’t feel pressure to receive Communion if they aren’t able to receive it. We know that because the topic showd up in the Instrumentum laboris for the Synod, which stated:
Some responses [by bishops to a questionnaire sent out to prepare the groundwork for the Synod] mention that priests, while distributing Holy Communion, give a blessing to children or catechumens—both duly pointed out—who approach the altar and have not made their First Communion. In some Churches, a blessing is imparted to non-Catholics who approach the altar at Communion time. In this regard, some responses from Asia suggest finding some gesture at Communion time towards non-Christians to make them feel more a part of the liturgical community.
It is possible that Pope Benedict will take up the subject in his Post-Synodal Exhortation, which should be released within a year or so. If he does take it up (and I’m not saying that he will) then my guess is that he will approve the practice for precisely the reasons that the bishops’ responses spoke positively of it–that it will relieve social pressure to receive Communion for those who are not able to receive, thus resulting in fewer sacrilegious receptions of Communion (something that the synod fathers were very concerned about).
It is also possible, giving how widespread this practice is, that the Congregation for Divine Worship may weigh in on it. If that happens, it could either approve or disapprove of it.
All this is just speculation, though. The issue at hand is what does liturgical law provide now (covered in the bullet points above).
Since this practice does not have current authorization, I’d try to be understanding of your priest. He’s trying to do what he think is right, even if his application on the law of this point may have not taken account of the idea that it is reasonable to pause the distribution of Communion for a just cause.
2) He also does not bless the smaller children, which I have seen done other places. What is the common (or alternatively, the advisable) practice regarding that?
The same considerations apply. If you have a child being brought up for a blessing and one is denied then either the parents or the parents and the child may go away disappointed, angry, and disaffected, which strike me as legitimate reasons to pause to give a blessing.
3) If a blessing is allowed and/or proper/encouraged, what would you recommend as supporting evidence to the pastor?
Since this practice is not provided for in liturgical law, there isn’t really any documentation on it, but feel free to show him this blog post as a liturgical law opinion.




I think it’s up to the Bishop. Our Bishop encourages it. My kiddos go up with us at communion with their little arms crossed and look forward to thier blessing. My goodness when a Eucharistic minister overlooks them - look out!
I think it is a great way to be eccumenical without trying to hand out communion to everyone. Also, people who are not Catholic should not want our communion. We say it is the Body Blood Soul and Divinity of Christ and most of our Brothers and Sisters in the various denomonations flat out don’t belive that. My father is not catholic and doesn’t understand how some of our non-catholic relatives are insulted that they can’t receive communion at our parish. This is often the very thing is what so many of their founders rejected. I am reminded of a Jack Chick publication that basically made it out to be a Cookie.
Laura,
I can understand the kids coming up with you when you recieve communion but why get a blessing especially when a blessing is given shortly after Communion?
our church does the blessing if the arms are crossed over the chest and for all the children, a blessing should not be reserved for only the catholics who can’t recieve but should be available for all the attending people. blessings are not about being worthy, they are about God loving you anyway, whether you believe the same or not. I think it should not be left to the bishops but should be practice and (personal opinion) for that priest to look at the woman and say “we don’t do that”, to me that is just turning away someone who may have been on thier way to becoming catholic. what does that say to people?
I read the Akin post and the responses (before joining CAF, I had never even HEARD of Jimmy Akin), and as is unfortunately the case with many liturgical questions, the answer appears to be as clear as mud. But I can say this: My Catholic upbringing has certainly shown me that it is not good for me to partake in other denominations’ celebrations of the Lord’s Supper or what have you.
Then again, my wife and I have been having a lot of discussions lately about how anal we should be about actual or perceived abuses at Mass. The good (exposing these abuses) could be the enemy of the best (union with God through the Real Presence of His Son, Jesus).
Someone on my blog asked me about this very topic, and I answered it the best I could at the time.
I found this also to be rather insightful….
question I’m often asked is whether it is appropriate for extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion to give blessings during the distribution of communion.
This is an interesting question because it not only involves the fittingness of extraordinary ministers giving blessings, but also whether priests and deacons should even be giving blessings during the distribution of communion.
The “General Instruction of the Roman Missal,” the document that governs the celebration of the Mass, notes the distribution of communion stating: “If communion is given only under the species of the bread, the priest raises the host slightly and shows it to each, saying, ‘Corpus Christi (The Body of Christ).’ The communicant replies, ‘Amen,’ and receives the Sacrament either on the tongue or, where this is allowed and if the communicant so chooses, in the hand. As soon as the communicant receives the host, he or she consumes it entirely” (No. 161).
The paragraph does not mention the question at hand, and some would assume that the silence of the law on this issue admits to permission. Actually, the opposite is true because the Institutio did not intend the giving of blessings during Communion because that has never be normative in the Catholic Church during the distribution of the Body of Christ. Moreover, it is clear that the only actions that are taking place during the distribution of Communion are the raising and giving of the host by the priest and the reception of the host by the people. So, from normative documents the giving of blessings during communion by anyone — either the ordinary ministers of Holy Communion or the extraordinary ones — would not be allowed.
Keep in mind what is happening during the Communion procession. The complete attention of both priest and communicant should be on the Body of Christ. The giving of blessings to be more inclusive is a noble idea, but it detracts and distracts from the primacy of Christ truly, really and substantial present before our very eyes. Consequently, the practice is not allowed by the law of the Church, and her theology also warrants against such a practice.
Father Morris is on the faculty of Kenrick-Glennon Seminary in Shrewsbury.
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“Extraordinary ministers have no power to bless [those who approach them in church]. They are ministers of Communion only.Parents may bless their children, superiors their subjects (as in monasteries) and similar, though these are not exercises of the power of the keys as are the blessings of clergy. In both the case of the blessing of throats and the administration of ashes, since these articles are already blessed they may be administered by laity delegated by the pastor for that purpose.” —From an orthodox expert on theology and liturgical matters, EWTN’s Colin Donovan
Now that I knew; EMHCs have no business giving blessings. But they do anyway. *sigh*
Laura,
No problem my dear
Did I mention before I am sorry that your dad does not understand about the Eucharist and the why behind non-catholics not being able to recieve.
There are some good sources out there, if you want to share them with him…perhaps it would get him to see things in a more accurate light and lead him to the church.
Cygnus..
EMHC’s do alot of things that they should not do…I wish they would just go away truthfully!
Laura-
I will keep him in my prayers.
Almighty and loving Father, I thank you for giving St. Gerard to us as a most appealing model and powerful friend. By his example, he showed us how to love and trust you. You have showered many blessings on those who call upon him. For your greater glory and my welfare, please grant me the favors which I ask in his name.
(Here mention them privately)
And you, my powerful patron, intercede for me before the throne of God. Draw near to that throne and do not leave it until you have been heard. O good saint, to you I address my feverent prayers; graciously accept them and let me experience in some way the effects of your powerful intercession. Amen.
I’ve thought about this, especially as in a few minutes the priest will give us all a blessing.
but with the current trend towards 100% communion, I think that at least it keeps people from taking communion when they shouldn’t.
I have to confess that I avail myself of this when I feel I need to go to confession. I still make the spiritual communion, but I do it as I look on the Blessed Sacrament in the the paten or ciborium that the priest holds. Fortunatly I know where the priest will be standing so I get a real blessing.
As to EEMs blessing the faithful, i was taught (and it may be one of those things that people of my generation was taught that are in error) that all christians can bless, but only priests, deacons and bishops can bles with the “keys”. The appropriate lay blessing is imparted with the thumb of the right hand.
By and large, with so many other liturgical abuses, (extempo eucharisitc prayers, the heretical doctrine of transsignification, etc) I think this isn’t wsomething to worry about, and may even be an organic development of the liturgy. When we attended Mass at a Moronite rite church, the Priest used the host to bless the person with, a sort of mini benediction. He especially made sure to do that to babes in arms.